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You can email pink at pinkspalmspage@yahoo.com
October 7, 2007
The format of Pink’s Page is going to be changing and I am hopefully going to be
contributing more often. Waiting for replies to the Page was ummmmmm….
disappointing, so I am hoping this new format will work better but, I should
probably change the title to "Pink's Ramblings".
I moved. What a mess. No matter how good my intentions, moving day always
arrives with me totally unprepared. I did have a pretty good excuse this time
for at least part of it, but I hate the fact that I ended up packing all that
stuff, then paying to move it, when I really want to get rid of a lot of it.
Oh, guess I didn't tell you guys that my sister that had ALS (Lou
Gehrig's Syndrome), passed away in late August and I had two services to
go to. Each of them was in a different city. She passed easily and gently on
Friday, August 24. She had been able to stay at home throughout and was there
with her husband and children at the time.
Then there was the drawer of "naughty things" that I had to hide from the
movers. I mean...how do you explain canes and paddles? Of course, if I was
braver, I guess I could have hoped that one of these guys was a spanker and
"voila"...I'd have had a new "Palm's" recruit.
My new place is really cool. I am moving into a three-bedroom house with a new
roommate. She is a long time friend of Draftyattic and knows I'm a spanko. She
isn't one...yet. *grin* I have the master bedroom. It has double doors, a big
master bath complete with a HUGE bathtub and some closets that are totally
awesome. I spent a bit of time counting the corners in my space...you
know...just in case some silly Top says I have to wait for him in the corner
either before after or during a spanking....... Sooo, there are the obvious and
usual four corners, but then there is the angle in one corner of the bedroom,
the angle behind the double doors, the corners in the
bath tub, the corners in the separate room where the sinks are located,
and the four corners in each of the two walk-in closets. I have this really
coool place in one of the closets. I'll show it to my partners in crime if you
come to visit, but...it is TOP secret (meaning you have to sign a statement that
you won't disclose the secret to ANY Top...cause....welllll....that would RUIN
the fun).
Right after my sister's death, I hadn't had a spanking in a LONG time. It had
been over two weeks. I was offered several, but I told him I'd probably cry.
He told me he'd heard me cry before, but I told him he hadn't heard me cry like
THIS. I said. "So far, you've only heard muffled sobbing".
He said, "Oh, you mean you might have a case of the shrieking boohooies?"
Well, of course THAT gave Drafty and me the giggles. Which was very good. Then
I got a good hug a bit later...which was even better.
I suspect I'll be getting a spanking real soon. The other night, I was at my
spanko friend's house and one our newbies came over to be spanked. She is a
brat and tried to get me into all kinds of trouble. Of course, I was my usual
innocent self. However, I'm not sure that my Top bought it. Like most Tops, he
has a very suspicious mind.... at least when it comes to believing in my
innocence. When I tell him that I'm a good girl, he just says, "Good girls, get
good spankings." HARUMPH!!! When I was a kid, my mom used to threaten me with
a "good spanking" and that meant a "bad spanking". Sheesh...I was innocent then
too, but of course she didn't believe me.
I know of AT LEAST one other brat that needs spanked. Her name starts with an R
and she needs spanked really badly because she has been too elusive lately. If
she doesn't show up soon, I'm liable to spank her myself...and no, you can't
watch 'cause I'm just joking...but don't tell HER that. If our brat from
Portland ever gets back up here, SHE needs SEVERAL severe thrashings
because she is "queen brat" on the chat board. She is always trying to twist
what the other brats say so that they get in trouble...and then there is
Drafty. She is the inventor of instigation. Why don't people think SHE is
naughty?
We have some other newbies too and are THEY ever deserving of spanking. "B" and
"E" just glow with naughtiness.
Have you noticed how references to spanking are becoming more mainline? I see
more and more references in my favorite "bodice rippers" (Drafty's name for the
romance paperback books that I read), on TV, in movies, and just from others
that I assume aren't spankos or at least don't know/admit that they are.
However, I stopped completely in my tracks, when I came out of our local Fred
Myers the other day. There, in plain site, in the entryway, was a poster of a
man spanking a woman OTK. Can you imagine my surprise? He had her OTK. They
both had on blue-jeans and his hand was raised for the next swat to her blue-jeaned
bottom. Imagine my disappointment though, when I looked again, and what looked
like her bottom, raised and OTK was actually just his leg, crossed at the knee.
She was actually sitting on the floor with her head just about the same level as
it would have been if she had been OTK. RATS!!! My eyes had conspired with my
brain and my kink to play tricks on me. Hmmm...does that mean my eyes and brain
are just as kinky as my kink is?
As usual, if you want to reach me for comments or ideas or anything, just email
me at
pinkspalmspage@yahoo.com. I MIGHT be slow in answering, but I will
eventually get around to it. Also, I'll try to get another interview completed
sometime in the near future for those who enjoyed my last one.
May 27, 2007
It was a cold, dark, and rainy night. Few were about, but, there HE was. I had
waited for the timing to be perfect and this seemed like a golden opportunity.
One of the promises I had made was about to be fulfilled.
I smiled and teased. He seemed trusting, open, and unsuspecting…Or was he? Was
he perhaps playing with me, knowingly leading me into a false sense of security?
Soon….I promised myself…I would know.
I chatted openly a bit with other agents. “Stealth” seemed to have a bit of
personal knowledge of him and felt he was trustworthy and skilled. She was
excited and totally supportive of my choice. She also gave her full backing and
said she would provide more details if she thought of any.
I boldly approached him. He smiled and fearlessly said, “Bring it on.’ I
grinned. My first victim...warm, willing, experienced, and self-confident. I
wondered how long that would last.
It took me a while to set things up. He seemed impatient. He even sent me a
communication stating that he “was expecting to hear from me.” It seemed as if I
could actually hear the reprimand and sternness of his voice saying the words.
Knowing his proclivity, it gave me a moment’s pause and caused a shiver of
something...was it fear or anticipation...to run up my spine and then set a
certain region of my body tingling in nervous anticipation. I giggled a the
thought that I might provoke him to display the expertise that “stealth”
insinuated he had and that he himself claimed to be his.
I finally managed a brief communication.
His response was not quite I had expected. From his original “Bring it on,” he
was now wavering and complaining (dare I say whining?) a bit. Backing down,
however, never entered my mind. He had promised, and I expected him to deliver.
I was prepared to find him in a dark alley, drag him someplace, tie him up, turn
a white hot spotlight on him, and deny him even a sip of cold water until he
finally met my demands. I was sure that “stealth” and/or other agents would be
willing to assist me if I needed it.
He, however, decided to co-operate, so I spared him the white hot spotlight, and
the dragging through the alley…and the interrogation began.
1) Your name? Jake
2) Is Jake a made-up name or your real name? It’s
an alias. My real name is a matter of national security.
3) Do you live in the Seattle area? Born & raised.
4) For the record, please describe yourself. Late
40’s, green eyes, shaved head & brown goatee.
5) Are you single, in a committed relationship, married?
101% single.
6) How did you hear about our group? Invited by
griselde, who knew me from before.
7) How long have you known you were a spanko? Since
college
8) When did you give/receive your first adult spanking?
In college.
9) What do you look for when looking for the ideal
“bottom”? (I’m thinking more personality than physical attributes, but if the
physical is really important, please include that in your response) A fun
personality, someone who I enjoy spending time with away from spanking as well.
Someone who can engage me on many levels.
10) Do you ever spank for discipline? I have, and
am willing to again in the future, given the right circumstances, but haven’t
much lately.
11) Do you ever bottom? No.
12) Do you always spank just for fun or do you do sometimes do discipline?
Mainly for fun, but have spanked for discipline in the past.
Teehee…I snuck the same question in twice and he just answered it twice…Do you
think he didn’t notice…or was he just indulging me?
13) Do you consider yourself a Top, a Dom, or a Switch? 90% top, 10% Dom.
(That email he sent me about “expecting to hear from me” sure sounded like a
Dom…but the whining…ummm….)
14) Do you like to be bratted/teased during a spanking or
is it all serious for you? Each time can be different. I’ve done both.
15) What is your favorite implement? Currently a
leather strap/paddle from London Tanners and a vintage barber’s razor strop.
16) Which implements are you experienced with?
Leather & wood paddles, straps, canes, bath and hair brushes.
17) What is your favorite position for the spankee to be
in? OTK and/or standing, bent over a chair or something similar.
18) What does a typical spanking “look like” when you give
it? For example, do you give a warm-up and if so, what does that consist of? How
does the spanking proceed? How long does it take to properly spank a bottom? Do
you think marking is OK, good, barely acceptable, depends on the reason, or just
plain bad? Usually, a good warm up, since I prefer a longer, slower
session as opposed to fast & furious.
19) Anything else you would like to share with the readers (about spanking or
anything else)? Umm…
20) What do you do for a living? Sales/customer
service
21) What other interests do you have? Example: We have
heard you mention your DJ’ing…is this for a particular group of people? Is it
part of your job? How’d you get into that? OR…just anything else you’d care to
tell us. I have bee doing partner dancing (ballroom, swing, etc) for 16
years. My interest and enjoyment of music made me think that I could produce and
DJ better dances than I had been attending.
Hmmmm…sooooo…there’s my first interrogation. Welcome Jake. Hope you are able to
join us more often than you have in the past.
Pinkcheeks…what a girl wants…what a girl needs.
APRIL18, 2007
Hi everyone and WELCOME to Pink’s Page. If you are new to this page, you might
want to start at the bottom of the page and “catch up”…or if you haven’t been
here for a bit, you can scroll down and refresh your mind.
PAST “BUSINESS”
RE: The St Patrick’s Day story contest. I put a poll up on the story board,
but no-one responded so I had to do the judging on my own. It wasn’t an easy
decision and you can read it on the thread titled “And the Winner of the St
Patrick’s Day Contest”.
RE: GETTING WHAT YOU NEED, WHEN YOU NEED IT.
This is a dilemma that many people face. There are those that say “just ask”
and for them that works. Then there are those of us that feel that having to
ask almost takes away from the experience. It’s as if asking for it makes it
seem like the person asked didn’t want it enough to do it themselves and are
only doing it to please their partner. When it’s the bottom who wants it more
often, it seems a bit like Topping from the bottom. When it’s the Top who wants
it more often, it can seem like they are “imposing” their desires on the bottom.
Sooo…what’s a person to do? For ease in writing I’m going to take the liberty
of referring to Tops as “he” and bottoms as “she”, so if that isn’t your
arrangement, please just “fix it” to fit your situation. In this case it’s the
bottom wanting more. I suggest that sometime soon after a spontaneous spanking,
that you sit down and express your delight in it. Tell him right up front that
you wish it could happen more often. You may be pleasantly surprised to know
that he has been holding back because he didn’t want to impose on you. At any
rate, I suggest you make suggestions that in the future will give clues to him
that you are ready for a night of spanking.
For example, you could use clothes as a clue. If you want a hard spanking, you
could have a type of outfit that , when worn says “spank me like you mean it”,
like a sultry red blouse. If you want just a loving/romantic spanking, maybe
you wear a white flowing nightgown. For a fun spanking, maybe it’s PJ’s and
“fun” slippers. To avoid confusion, you may need another clue like….a certain
light you turn on or a flag you hang on the outside of your house that he’ll see
when he comes home, or a certain book placed strategically on “his” chair or the
bed.
Another idea is for one of you to ask the other for a date using some kind of
code word. For this to seem a bit more spontaneous, ask for the date at LEAST
one day in advance.
Maybe you can call him at work on Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday. The further
in advance, the more spontaneous it will probably seem and will allow you both
the time to anticipate and play head games. During the call, “remind” him that
he has a job to do on Saturday and he’ll need to remember to pick up his new
suit at the store (you want the stern spanker who “spanks it like he means it“),
or he has to buy some wine (you want a loving/romantic spanking), or he needs to
buy some new running shoes (he’s gonna need them because there’s going to be a
hot fun night of play). All of these are just CUES…he isn’t necessarily really
going to do them. They are telling him that 1) you want a spanking, 2) you want
it on Saturday, and 3) it’s to be stern (the suit), loving/romantic (the wine),
or just fun (the running shoes). If you want HIM to choose, remind him that he
has a commitment on Saturday and let HIM tell YOU how to prepare (by asking you
to pick up his suit, buy some wine, or buy him some running shoes). Saying that
there is a commitment on Saturday and that you may need all of those for the
evening and also saying that you want the other person prepared means that
whoever the instigator is wants the “scene” to be a total surprise but that it
involves spanking.
Readers, do YOU have any suggestions? Just send them to me by clicking on the
link at the bottom of the page. I’ll post your ideas either with your name or
without (your choice)
RE: Friday the 13th. How was YOUR luck? Do you feel that Friday the 13th is
unlucky? Are you superstitious?
NEW BUSINESS
I want to do an interview. I have someone in mind and he/she is willing…What
kind of things do you want to know? Is there someone you would like for me to
interview?
GENERAL
Please contribute often and enjoy the other forums on the site. Previous
entries are below.
Pink Cheeks...What a girl wants...What a girl needs!
March 12, 2007
TOPICS: The January 27 New Year’s Resolution question, Reminder of the St.
Patrick’s story contest, Valentine’s Day, and “Getting what you need, When you
need it”
RE: GETTING WHAT YOU NEED, WHEN YOU
NEED IT.
A reader stated that as a couple, they had been into spanking for about 4
years. At first, things were hot, wild, and exciting. But, now, not so much.
The question was: How do you go about getting what you need, when you need it
without asking for it (because the bottom hates to do that) and without bratting
(also not the bottom’s “thing”)
Sooooo…readers….what do YOU suggest?
RE: VALENTINE’S DAY
One Inquiring Mind asked:
What did folks do for Valentine's Day? What did she want? What did she do if she
didn't get it?
How did a poor, harassed Top get back on top with his brat, on
Valentine's Day?
How did a bratty little bottom show that she really loves him?
Inquiring minds want to know...!
RE: ST. PATRICK’S STORY CONTEST:
(reference the Feb 19th post)
We have one contestant so far. I’d love to see more entries. After all…a
contest needs at LEAST two participants. The rules are easy and a contribution
is sure to add additional interest to the site.
RE: NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS (reference
the January 27 post)
Most respondents (all were female bottoms), seemed to feel that New Year’s
Resolutions just don’t work. If you really want to change, you have to do it on
your own.
One said: Her husband just isn’t that “into this” thing we do enough to
maintain consistency. He WANTS to help, and starts out being really helpful by
spanking as agreed. However, he soon isn’t following through and so the
resolution gets forgotten and there are no consequences and so she just slowly
goes back to the way things were.
Another said: She had tried to have a resolution regarding weight loss. Her
Top tried to be consistent, but they don’t live together so there were often
long periods of time where there was no enforcement and soon the whole thing was
forgotten. He tried harder spankings, and having her keep reports, but she
still wasn’t able to follow through with the program and soon they abandoned
it. She felt that MAYBE if they had a live-in relationship, where enforcement
was immediate, that it would have a better chance of working. She also felt
that bottoms need to develop their own self-discipline. That as adults, we owe
it to ourselves to be responsible and that Tops need to be able to have a
break. After all…they AREN’T demi-gods.
Drawing my own conclusions, based on these responses are that it MIGHT be
helpful to use spanking as a tool for sticking to resolutions, IF the Top is
TRULY into spanking and not just doing it because it pleases his partner, AND,
if the Top and bottom have a live-in relationship so that he is there to provide
immediate “support” during failures or temptations.
Thanks to all who have responded!!
Love,
Pink
Pinkcheeks…what a girl wants….what a girl needs!
February 19, 2007 (edited)
I'd like to encourage the posting of stories related to St. Patrick's day. You
know...leprechauns are FULL of mischief and they could get in trouble OR cause
some trouble...or maybe it is just the wearing of the green...or too much green
beer.
In fact....let's have a contest. To be considered, you must follow the four
rules listed below.
1) Write a story that somehow relates to St. Patrick's day AND spanking.
2) The story must be YOUR original work, but may have been posted (by YOU)
elsewhere.
3) Post it to the "Stories" Forum Board...Do not send it to Pink's Page.
4) Be sure to put the word "contest" (minus the quote marks) in the subject
(title) line so that I will know you want your story to be considered in the
contest.
Easy!
There probably won't be any tangible awards, but, we will post who won and if
there are enough entries, we'll have several winners. Don't be shy! It's not
that hard. Even if you've never written or posted a story ANYWHERE before,
maybe THIS time you will. Hope so!!
January 27, 2007 (edited)
NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS
Inquiring minds want to know: What are/were your resolutions? How are you
doing about keeping them? Is someone going to hold you accountable? If so,
what are your consequences and what is your relationship to him/her? Do any of
you know someone that you wish would make a particular resolution? If so, what
is it and why do you wish they’d change in this particular fashion? If you
didn’t make any New Year’s Resolutions, WHY didn’t you? Oh…and a funny
thing about the previous post. When I ran spell check for it, at the end, where
I say “I’m innocent”, spell-check suggested I change it to, “I is innocent”
Either way….Innocence is one of my virtues. HONEST!
Pinkcheeks…What a girl wants!...What a girl needs!
January 23, 2007
ABOUT PINK’S PAGE
Hi, I’m Pink. I’m really excited about this new page. It is going to be
interactive, but in a different way from the other pages on this site. On this
page, you’ll be responding to me by email at my “site address“, and I’ll be
using your responses in several different ways.
You will find polls, story suggestions, pointers, FAQS/FYIS/questions/etc. on
this page. In addition, it will be a bit like Dear Abby/Ask Jeeves/Mz.
Manners/who’s who. I want to do interrogations (or are they supposed to be
called interviews) and in general be another point of contact for the site.
Your participation is going to be incredibly important. Without it, this page
will be horribly boring. Unlike the other pages on this site, your responses
won’t be posted immediately. Instead, your responses will come to my contact
address and I will summarize and comment on them. If you don’t want your name
associated with something, just put the word “ANONYMOUS” at the very beginning
of your response to me and I’ll leave your name out of anything that I print. I
will sometimes just summarize all of the responses I get. However, if I get a
really good idea from someone, I will give them credit for it (IF they don’t
tell me they want to remain anonymous).
Please feel free to send me questions or suggestions.
Since this page is called “Pink’s Page”, I’m including a few facts about me. I’m
a divorced white female who is old “enough”. I knew I was interested in spanking
when I was really little (like about three years of age). I got my first real
life adult spanking about four years ago and love it. I’m happy, easy going, and
am a people pleaser but not a push-over. I think of myself as a “bottom” in the
spanking world of relationships. I’m not truly a sub, but, in certain situations
I become very submissive. Normally, I’m smiling, sensitive and determined
(although some mean people say that’s a nice way of saying that I’m stubborn.
One unnamed person even calls it “weasel wording“. Harrumph!!). I like to tease
and get into mischief while not being rude or mean to my target/victim. Some
people call me a brat, but….I’m innocent…HONEST!!
Don't forget, I need your help. PLEASE, remember to participate. OFTEN!
Pinkcheeks…What a girl wants!….What a girl needs!
Don't forget, I need your help. PLEASE, remember to participate. OFTEN!
You can email pink at pinkspalmspage@yahoo.com
Pinkcheeks…What a girl wants!...What a girl needs!